Q: I've been trying to conceive for almost a year. Is there a problem?
A: The guidelines state you should seek the advice of a specialist if you are under 35 and have had unprotected intercourse for 12 months without a pregnancy. However, if you are over 35, you should only wait 6 months to seek the advice of a specialist. If you believe you have ovulation or hormone issues or any other health factors affecting you or your partner, you should discuss these health issues with your physician immediately. A specialist in the field of infertility is called a Reproductive Endocrinologist. Your physician can refer you to a specialist or you can find one on www.resolve.org Basic tests will be performed on both the woman and man to reach a diagnosis and course of treatment. Ask questions, research your options, and get a second opinion if you are not comfortable with the information your medical team is providing.
Q: I've been diagnosed with infertility. I'm having a hard time being around friends and family who are pregnant or have children, is this normal?
A: Your feelings are completely normal. Protecting yourself is a basic human response as it can be painful to see pregnant friends and children. It is important to learn how to take care of yourself, make sure you that get the support you need, and to manage your emotions so that your self-esteem and outlook on life remains as positive as possible. To avoid feelings of isolation, talk to others going through infertility either via a support group model or online via a discussion board. This connection will give you a community that cares and help you cope with the emotions of infertility. If you are depressed or have an overwhelming feeling of loss or sadness, you may want to seek the help of a trained mental health professional. Organizations like RESOLVE can help you find one close to you.
Q: Does insurance cover infertility treatment?
A: Health insurance guarantees that an individual will not have to bear the entire burden of his/her health care expenses. But in the case of infertility, the majority of patients bear the responsibility of covering the costs of treatment due to lack of insurance coverage. Insurance policies vary widely and may even differ from employer to employer from the same insurer. It is important to thoroughly review and seek clarification about the provisions of a particular plan, paying specific attention to covered benefits, exclusions and restrictions as they relate to reproductive health services and infertility diagnosis and treatment. In order to get accurate information, your health plan administrator should provide you with a copy of your plan's Summary Plan Description (SPD). It outlines your benefits, covered services and your legal rights under the Employee Retirement Income Security Act (ERISA), the federal law that protects your health benefits. A few states do have insurance mandates for the diagnosis and treatment of infertility. Visit www.resolve.org to find out if your state has mandated coverage and if you qualify for this coverage.
Q: I've heard support groups can help while dealing with infertility. Is this true?
A: Perhaps one of the most important benefits of participating in a support group is a decreased sense of the isolation so many people feel when they are experiencing infertility. In a support group environment, feelings of anger, depression, guilt and anxiety can be expressed, validated by others and accepted as a normal response to the infertility crisis. Support group members often realize how their experiences in the group have created a special bond and identity between group members. By sharing feelings, accomplishments, losses, and humor known only to those who experience infertility, members can develop strong emotional ties to one another. By offering a safe place to express and explore the feelings generated by the infertility experience, support groups help participants move toward a positive resolution of this difficult life crisis.
||Barbara Collura, RESOLVE Executive Director |
Barbara Collura joined RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association in September 2004 as the Director, Chapter & Constituent Services. In April 2007, Barbara was named Executive Director of RESOLVE. Prior to joining the national headquarters staff of RESOLVE, Barbara served as a volunteer for RESOLVE in the Washington, DC metro area for several years. On staff Barbara oversaw the restructuring of the RESOLVE nationwide volunteer network from a chapter structure to an integrated, regional model.
As Executive Director, Barbara represents RESOLVE at a number of national conferences, committees and organizations including the National Committee on the Oversight of Assisted Reproductive Technologies (NCOART), the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM), and serves on the Board of Directors of the National Health Council. As the official spokesperson for RESOLVE, Barbara is a skilled public speaker in women’s health, health policy and reproductive health She has been quoted in the national media including The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and Parenting Magazine. Collura has been a featured guest on the TODAY Show on NBC, MSNBC and FOX and Friends on FOX News.
Barbara is very passionate about RESOLVE's mission as the organization was a source of comfort and information during Barbara's own battle with infertility.
Prior to joining RESOLVE, Barbara ran a high tech recruiting organization serving as Vice President of Operations and also owned her own high tech recruiting firm. Barbara received her undergraduate degree from the University of Montana and her graduate degree in international affairs from American University in Washington, DC.
Barbara, her husband Chris, and son reside in Oak Hill, Virginia.
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